Showing posts with label Irfan. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Irfan. Show all posts

26 Jan 2008

nO mAttEr whAt...

So funny, me and Sandra almost talked the same thing on our blog! Yes, we talked about this issue before but I never thought she's also gonna blog about this matter!
to Bek; egg splatter 1000 times! muahahaha

BTW, I met so many competitive moms with unwelcome advice also before.. they always comparing Irfan with their children.. talking about Irfan head like "this and that", Irfan late to be able to do "this and that"... even saying that Irfan looks alike "this and that"... talking about how bad I am as a mother b'coz Irfan still cannot do "this and that"... iya, so sad but true, I cried a lot also whenever they talked about my DS, they hurt my feelings and make me feel bad for being a mom! The saddest thing is why must they compare and judging him in front of him? I believed and I know he can understand every single thing they said even he was few months.. I feel so sorry for my dear son for listening to all such things... I know I must be patience but I am worry if Irfan cannot! I understand that my Irfan is different from another baby, every baby is unique n grows differently...As long as they are healthy and happy then fine enough for me..

Alhamdulillah... Irfan is now enjoying his life walking, jogging, jumping and running even he started walking when he was 16 months old! Some mother in my neighbourhood thinks the way he runs is funny but for me he is enjoying his running anyway! Because I know my baby hands n legs are all normal, including his head!

Thank God... He is now be able to count from 1 to 10 in English even he is still lisp and the pronunciation not that clear as it should! But, what do we expect from 2 and a half years old boy rite?

More thankful to God... Since he is going to the new school, he is able and always willing to put on and off his shoe by himself even I must wait for a few minutes sometimes... I am always proud of him... Since he is fully potty trained, now he knows how to put on and off his pants by himself too even sometimes the pant is inside out!

To those people who loves talking and comparing your child with Irfan, thank you for your concerned... I appreciate you advices too... I am personally think, no matter what you all people said about my son, I know he is special and I know he is doing great. Doesn't mean when he never show off his talent in public means he is not capable doing anything at all... he just shy. Yes he is a bit tantrums sometimes, but it happened with a reason why he is behaving like that n that is mama job to find out the solution, but it doesn't mean he is not good at all...

huhh I don't mean anything for writing this all about, it just to "lepaskanperasaanyangterpendam" only.. To my best friend, thank you for all your support and your anak angkat is doing great now! !

16 Jan 2008

Irfan in a new daycare...

I never update my blog for almost 1 week... sigh emmm iya, I've been busy lately, usually mama and papa Irfan's work will be busier in January and July.. but this month, especially this week our life is busier because of our daily routine is changing since Irfan going in to a new daycare! yayyyyyy finally mama and papa are happy leaving Irfan in the new daycare now! We'd been thinking to change his daycare since last November, however this week seems the most right time for us to make a move! He loves his new school though we have to drive about almost 1 hour daily to send and fetch him! ya, here in KK sounds a little bit strange if they heard we have to drive for 1 hour just for sending our child to a daycare! Most of my friend said we both "sengaja cari masalah"! But me and my dear hubby chubby decided to ignore them.. iya, maybe this is not the best decision yet, but so far Irfan is getting better and happier... The most important for us is to make Irfan happy...

14'th January 2008-First day in school, yes, he cried out of loud begging us not to leave him, but after a few minutes he was fine even he can follow the schedule already! And the most unforgettable thing that makes mama Irfan really PINGSAN is, Irfan starts fully diaperless!! I am happy but at the same time I am sad, seriously because I know I cannot use CD anymore!! However, I salute Irfan's teacher for willing to train Irfan in school.. I know some of school refused to do so... So, now I declare officially Irfan stop using CD! "PINGSAN!!"

15'th January 2008- Second day in school, mama was "PINGSAN" again because he didn't cry at all while we left him! In the morning I was preparing myself for his "cranky situation" but everything turns to be opposite! He looks so happy saying good bye n gave me his flying kiss... siap cakap " ieeyouu = I love you!" some more!!! So proud for him because I just drop him at the gate on his 2'nd day at school...!

16th January 2008- Third day in school, teacher said Irfan did pinch his friend once today!! waduhhhh he is brave enough already to pinch some one in a new school??? Mama pingsan again, but this is normal I think for children in his age making mistake in the process of learning to share... as long as he still under control and supervision, mama still ok hihihi

I wish I can be SAHM and taking care of my own child... But I don't think I can make this wish come true. I always pray Irfan will enjoy his life in school everyday... learn how to play with others.. learn how to share toys with friends... Also at least he knows how to socialize later ... I know so far he is happy with his new school, I hope our decision is all worth after all.

3 Jan 2008

Irfan n his mnkee!

Irfan got this mnkee a.k.a monkey form his aunty. He loves this monkey so much, so when he found out mnkee armpit tear off he feels so upset for his mnkee and ask mama to put some medicine on it! errrrrr mama pening for a while.. but then I know what is the best "medicine" I can give to mnkee!

" eeyannn mnkee akit.. jap, jap mama etak ubat yaaa.. eeyaaann mnkkee " = kesian monkey sakit, sekejap mama letak ubat ye, kesian monkey
He keeps saying this sentence from the beginning until I finished my stitching on mnkee armpit! duhh I really cannot see his face that time... mahu nangis ada mahu ketawa pun ada!!


"eeyann mnkee.. eeyannn mnkee.." = kesian monkey.. kesian monkey..
JustLookAtHisFace!!





"ok .. mnkee dah ok... tak akit agi kann mnkee? kann "

mama rolling down on the floor already!






"yayyy mnkee dah ok!!! ayaaaaaaang mnkee! "
mama irfan pingsan! fewww lega! Lucky I manage to stitch a bit!!






I think he also will pingsannn! If he realised what has he done to mnkee while he's sleeping!! ohhh dear...